Please only answer this if you actually have some knowledge of how abusive/controlling men operate and think..

sweetie he sounds controlling and abusive!he sounds like he's emotionally abusive and it's not going to get any better it will only get worse.he will tell you he's going to change and get better,etc. but its all a lie its part of the cycle of abusive and control. he needs to help you out more with the children, he sounds really selfish to me. you need a break!your going to school and practically taking care of 3 children. try expressing to him that you feel like your doing all the work,going to school,etc. if he doesnt agree and doesnt make any improvements get the F out of there!because its only going to get worse,and you will find someone who will love you and be there for your children. you shouldnt have to buy this guy smokes!wtf